Target Skill: Understanding and Using Non-Verbal Language

Research shows that the majority of the messages we send are nonverbal. Non-verbal communication, or body language, includes our facial expressions, gestures, eye contact, mutual gazing , body proximity and even the tone of our voice. The ability to understand and use nonverbal communication is a powerful tool that will help children and adults connect with others, express what they really mean, navigate challenging situations, and build better relationships at home, school and work.

Skill Builders

Below are some helpful apps and activities that you can do with your child to improve their non-verbal communication skills:

Body Language

  1. One way to learn the secrets of body language is to watch television with the sound turned off and try to interpret what is being said simply from reading body language. You will experience that humans say a lot with their mouth which either matches or is contradicted by their body, gestures and other channels of communication.
  2. Games like charades and role-playing activities as well as modifying familiar favorites, like Hokey Pokey with a Twist, strengthen nonverbal communication skills.
  3. When you are out and about play a “people watching” game with your child and observe strangers’ body movements and facial expressions and try to interpret them together.